Read these if you really want a long lasting love connection between your friend, spouse and lover.
I Have Discovered that Love Doesn’t Guarantee the Success of a Relationship
Love cannot help You stick to one Person all Years Round
And on the other hand, Cheating isn’t always a Product of not Loving Your Partner
In fact, Loving someone doesn’t Guarantee not Falling in Love with someone Else
Relationships work out Mostly because of our Head not our Heart
It works out because of our Emotional Maturity
Empathetic Intelligence and self Discipline because, Time will come when You’ll see more Beautiful Handsome Romantic Intelligent
Sexy Rich Curvy and God Fearing People than the one You’re in a Relationship with
In those times, Love will not help You; Self Control will help You
Emotional Intelligence will come to Your Rescue and Commitment will keep You Going
With those Characteristics
No matter how you Feel for Someone Else The Person you’re committed to will Rank first in Your Life
You think Happily married People don’t see better People than the Ones they Married ?
You think they don’t Feel Funny Sometimes
You think They don’t Catch Feelings They do!
But understanding that Commitment is Greater than Feelings is the great Arsenal that do Destroy that Impulse
You can fall in Love with Anyone
But building a Relationship takes Absolutely more than what Attracted you to Them and Takes more than Love
We are too Fond of Loving when it’s Convenient and Sweet
We are too Fond of Loving when love is There but that can only Last for just the first 3-6 Months of the Relationship
After then, You’ll realise that the Feelings have Dropped
it’s now Your Responsibility to make it Work Not Love’s Responsibility
Relationships cannot be Ready made
You have to Build It
And it’s never Always about Love
It requires Commitment and Intelligence
On the long run in Marriages
It’s not just Love that keeps them Together Forever
It’s Determination and Commitment.
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