It has become an abomination in our generation for a lady to love God without a π£π₯π’ππππ§ππ’π‘ of marrying “Papa”.π€¦ββοΈ
Since when did chasing God become for a particular set of ladies?
1. Fear – Fear of failure makes failure more likely. Fear of failure is a prison, it locks you in, preventing you from venturing outside your comfort zone.
2. Lack of Purpose – Lack of purpose can trigger depression or anxiety. Without a purpose, you can never scale any achievements because you can struggle to find the motivation to try anything new.
3.Inconsistency – Living a life with no consistency is a recipe for disaster. Inconsistency is one of the biggest time wasters. No one will pay attention to you if you are consistently inconsistent.
4. Indiscipline – Indiscipline affects you very badly. If you are indiscipline with time, you cannot be productive and cannot be respected by people. Indiscipline affects your personality and cause you not to progress in the mind. Sometimes the failures or dissatisfactions and tragedy you experience in life are caused by indiscipline.
5. Procrastination – Procrastination diverts time away from important or necessary tasks and spends it on less important activities. Procrastination is associated with a variety of dangers and negative effects, including worse academic performance, worse financial status, increased interpersonal relationship issues, reduced wellbeing, and worse mental and physical health.
6. Lack of confidence – When you lack confidence, you spend more time thinking and worrying about what other people are doing than focusing on your own competence and potential. This focus on others robs you of the positive energy you need to fuel your ambition and reach your objectives.
7. Lack of motivation – Without motivation, you cannot achieve anything. There are no goals to aim for and no purpose to strive towards.
8. Poor communication skills – Ineffective communication can lead to many misunderstandings or disagreements, too. This can include making mistakes or completing tasks incorrectly, having your feelings hurt, causing arguments, or distancing yourself from others.
9. Poor relationship skills – People with poor relationship skills are more likely to exhibit lowered self-worth and confidence. It also increases self-doubt, helplessness, fear, anxiety, depression, insecurity, paranoia, as well as decreased motivation and productivity
10. Jealousy – Jealousy rises when your own deeper yearnings arenβt being met, and you become envious of what another person has, how they are, or what they do. However, it can grow into resentment and bitterness which are dangerous to your health and success.
11.Covetousness – Covetousness is as deadly as any other sins. It will induce others self-destructive and toxic habits. It generates a destructive radiation with ill effect on anything it touches.
12.Complaints – Complaining about your problems keeps your attention on your problems. If you want to attract failure, talk about your problems. But if you want to attract success, talk about what makes you happy.
13.Dishonesty – Lies beget lies. To validate a lie, you have to tell another lie. To make that lie seem feasible, you have to tell two more lies. To make those lies seem believable, you have to tell even more lies until you ruin your personal reputation.
Not everyone that CAN talk knows HOW to talk, and not every one that CAN listen (possesses functional ears) knows HOW to listen. Some are good at talking, but bad at listening, some are bad at both, a few are good at both. You need a balance, you need to TALK TO and LISTEN TO your partner in the right way if your marriage will follow the right way.
π2) Forgiving Skills
A Great marriage consists of 2 Great Forgivers. As long as you married a human being, and you are a human being yourself, offense will come, you’ll offend each other consciously and unconsciously. The ability to forgive offenses as they come (without seeking revenge) will save you and your partner heartaches and save your marriage from Malice and Bitterness.
π3) Apologizing Skills
“I AM SORRY” Those three words can go a long way to salvage your marriage and cut short certain problems before they start and escalate.. You should be so good at apologizing that you can apologize even when you are not at fault just for peace to reign. Welcome to Marriage.
Successful Marriage
βοΈ 4) Letting Go Skills
It’s not everything you see your partner do or hear them say that you react to. SOMETIMES you ignore as if you didn’t see or hear. Don’t let your wahala be like bicycle, easy to start.. Be good at Forbearing, you’ll need this especially when dealing with your partners weaknesses (everybody has theirs).
π 5) Having Fun Skills
What is Marriage without Fun and Friendship? Always squeezing your face like someone that is licking lime will not help anybody. Some Men, their wives can’t even joke with them, wetin happen? It’s Marriage, not Wrestling. Don’t carry your age, class, status, anointing, achievements and enter your marriage space, become a friend and lover once you get home to your partner. Keep your TITLE in the office, otherwise your marriage will become a BATTLE.
π 6) Selflessness Skills
One of the challenges with Marriage is Selfish People. What will I gain? “If I give him a foot massage, what will he give me in return?” “If I wash the plates, what will she do?” Always keeping scores. Doing things to get things in return. Only doing things if you (will) get something in return, Don’t make this your mentality.
Don’t be Deceived. Sex Sex Sex… Is not the way out
5 THINGS SEX DOESN’T DO.
1) Sex doesn’t Strengthen a Relationship.
A Relationship that is weak is weak not because there is no sex in it, but because there is no LOVE (affection, attention), COMMUNICATION and COMMITMENT in it..
“Sex is not Love”
Adequate daily Communication, giving Attention to each other (hanging out, spending time together) and showing Affection (speaking each other’s love language) for each other strengthens Relationships.
2) Sex doesn’t Spice up a Relationship
You would here stuff like “let’s spice our relationship with sex”
A Relationshp is boring not because of a lack of Sex, but because of a lack of purpose, life, fun, friendship and excitement in the lives of those in it.
3) Sex doesn’t Prove Love
Ndi “if you love me, prove it”
Sex is not a way you prove your love for anyone, especially someone you’re not married to, in fact, abstinence is a better prove of love than sex.
Your ability to wait is a proof of true LOVE than your inability to wait which is rather a proof of LUST.
A Person can have sex with you and not love you.
4) Sex doesn’t Keep a Relationship
Ndi “I don’t want to lose him”
You can give him/her sex and they’ll will still dump you tomorrow, I counsel victims of this daily.
Even with good sex, marriages still break down everyday, talk less of a relationship
What keeps a relationship is LOVE, RESPECT, CHARACTER, and COMMITMENT
5) Sex doesn’t Prove that you’re a mature adult
Ndi “We’re matured adults, let’s do it.”
When did sex become the sign of matured adults?.
Immature and irresponsible teenagers have sex everyday, does that make them adults?
Sex doesn’t mean you’re matured, rather you prove your maturity by discipline and self control. ******************** Dear Single in a Relationship. Sex Has its Time
Wait, in the right season, na you go tire..
Keep sex out of your Relationship and build a solid foundation for your Marriage.
Marriage they say is not always a bedrock of roses nor a joke! Who you marry determines how your life eventually turns out. Your rising or crashing in life is determined the day you walk down the aisle with that woman so you can’t afford to pick another man’s bone. Here are the questions you must ask to see if your marital destiny is going towards the same direction.
1. WHAT IS HER VISION? Your wife must help you fulfil your vision that is why she is called an help-meet. If her dream is to become an international super nude model while your dream is to become a local full time Pastor, you will to do well to end the relationship!
2. IS SHE REALLY BORN AGAIN? Forget about religion. I’m talking about Christ-like behavior, attitude and character. Some ladies can tie scarf 24/7 yet the poison in them is deadlier than the serpent’s! If her character does not tally with that of a true child of God, you need to do a re-think!
3. IS SHE A VIRGIN OR NOT? You should find out to know what to expect on the wedding night and how to prepare for it.
4. DOES SHE HAVE AN EX? And what led to the break up so she won’t repeat the same mistake in your relationship. If she still keeps a close relationship with her EX, she needs to choose between you and him. No rivalry is allowed in any relationship that will last.
5. HAS SHE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED/ ASSAULTED/RAPED? Abused women have complicated emotions and relationships. They suffer unexplainable mood swings, depression, paranoia and in extreme cases psychosis and neurosis. They seriously have anger and trust issues. You need to find out so you can know how to relate with her in marriage. Better still, she needs to go for therapy before marriage.
6. DOES SHE HAVE A CHILD IN HER PAST? You must accept her child as your own now that you are getting married to her. If you can’t and she insists her child must live with her in marriage, you don’t belong together. End the relationship!
7. WHAT DOES MARRIAGE MEAN TO HER? Real marriage means companionship, deep sharing and friendship. If all she wants to do is have sex, cook and bear your children, she is not ready for marriage, both of you should go for counseling.
8. WHAT DOES SUBMISSION TO A HUSBAND MEANS TO HER? A wife must submit to her husband as the head in marriage. That is what the Holy Book says. If she is a feminist and you hate feminism with passionate hatred, you don’t belong together, end the relationship!
9. DOES SHE BELIEVE IN WORKING AFTER MARRIAGE OR SHE WANTS TO BE A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE? Iron this out so you won’t be shocked if she resigned from her job after her first pregnancy and refuse to do anything else aside cooking and bearing children.
10. WILL ANY OF HER FAMILY MEMBERS BE LIVING WITH YOU AFTER MARRIAGE? Talk. Find out if you can cope with her siblings or parents living with you immediately after wedding. If you honestly can’t, talk about it!
11. WHAT IS HER VIEW ABOUT MONEY? Some women believe money is meant to be spent while some believed it is to be saved. A lot of others believe in accumulating liabilities. Though the right way to handle money is earn, save, invest and give. Spending should follow budget. What is your own way of handling money? Make sure your view on money tallies lest you end up in the divorce court few years after marriage.
These and more are the serious questions you should ask your partner before saying “I DO”. Amos 3:3 is a proof of God’s will.
If you claim you heard God and both of you are not ending the same direction, you need to pray again. God’s will is not an excuse to walk in foolishness.
Yes, you must marry God’s will for your life and your God’s will must give you peace. If you are scared, troubled and your relationship is going no where to happen, end it before it ends you.
I miss your voice because it is a symphony; your scent because it is a treasure; your smile because it is a jewel; your hug because it is a masterpiece; and your kiss because it is a miracle.
1. Making an oath or blood covenant as a promise to marry each other. Thatβs cultism or ritual. Relationship doesnβt need initiation. Run!
2. Asking or pressuring for sex before marriage, asking for your nude pictures, phone sex, smooches, etc. Your body is the temple of God, βgive not that which is holy unto dogsβ, Matthew 7: 6.
3. Making your partner next-of-kin to all your documents and assets while you both are still single. This is risky!!! What if the marriage does not hold; then your assets or vital documents might be at great risk if he or she becomes fraudulent or elope with your documents. Thatβs why itβs only after marriage that you both can be next-of-kin to each other.
4. Living or cohabiting with your partners. If you both are serious, love and really want to marry; you both should patiently do the needful. Ensure you have at least a reliable source of income.
5. Getting pregnant to put your partner in the family way by force. Pregnancy is not enough reason for marriage. Marriage should be by Godβs will and love.
6. Men, not paying that ladyβs bride price you put in the family way is bad, ungodly and against our culture. I know a couple of singles that were put in the family way and till today their bride prices have not been paid. Thatβs a potential kidnap or modern day slavery. Please go and pay her bride price so you can receive Godβs and her parents blessings.
7. Some guys may always ask or force a lady to withdraw all her money or salary into his account; and that if she needs money heβll be giving her from his account. Sister, you donβt have control over your money again! Ask him, is he the Central Bank of your life? Youβre still single and you should be in control of your money. While single, the best you can do is help or support each other financially if need be. There was a time a guy killed his partner because she refused to buy something for her.
8. Forcing you to marry him or her because heβs or sheβs sponsoring your education, business, or spending lavishly on you, etc. Marriage is not by force but by God and love. Once you notice that, Iβll advice you call him or her and let them know youβre not interested in marriage for sponsoring you so he or she can take right decision early less he or she lose his money further.
9. Threatening you with death or to attack you if you donβt marry, have sex or be in a relationship with him. Report to your parents, counselor or police.
10. Heβs abusing you physically like a pouch bag and still asking you to stay. Sister run for your life less they carry your corpse.
11. You both are in a relationships but in his or her mind youβre a contract lover, so he or she alone can get visa to relocate abroad or get somethings (status, position, contract, etc) to his or her advantage. Without having plans for you, what becomes of you. He might promise to come back to Nigeria to pick you later, this worked for some while some it didnβt work. Some got there and thatβs the end you heard of them, while some came back. Lots of relationships/marriages in which this didnβt work out have broken. A lot of singles though claim they do this for love, anyway just be wise. Am not saying you shouldnβt help someone travel out but donβt be greedy or fraudulent around it. The plan should be for you both if you genuinely love him or her.
My dear singles, Iβll conclude with this: βTrust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evilβ. Proverbs 3: 3-7. A word is enough for the wise.
Itβs wrong to date any man just because you are single and all your friends are in a relationship. When it comes to choosing a man, itβs important you have standards as a woman.
Men have standards so I expect women to have standards too. Donβt be with any man because you are single; you wonβt enjoy the relationship if you do that.
I see many women getting it wrong when it comes to choosing a man. I see women go for men who arenβt good for them and donβt deserve them.
Choose a real man and not just any man.
Below are five (5) qualities every woman should seek in a man
1. CHOOSE A MAN WITH INTEGRITY
When choosing a man, go for a man with integrity. A man with integrity will not play games with you. A man with integrity says what he means and does what he says. A man with integrity is a real man and every woman should go for such men.
2. CHOOSE A MAN WHO SUPPORTS YOU
When choosing a man, you should go for a man who encourages and supports you. For a relationship to succeed, partners are expected to support each other. So be with a man who supports you and you are also expected to do same.
3. CHOOSE A MAN THAT CARES
Never go for a man who has no compassion for others. A man who treats others poorly will also treat you poorly. Go for a man who cares for others because such a man will care for you too.
4. CHOOSE A MAN THAT CAN BE TRUSTED
Every relationship is built on trust and itβs important you choose a man who is trustworthy. Without trust, passion and intimacy in a relationship is destroyed.
5. CHOOSE A MAN WHO PROTECTS YOU
When choosing a man, itβs important you choose a man who will protect you. Choose a man that wonβt say hurtful things about you to others but would instead praise you in public. A man that will be there to defend you when people speak bad about you.
Please before you think of Marriage Mr Man, I hope you can pray for 2 hours + ?
Please sister, before you think of marriage I hope you can pray for 1 hour + ?
Marriage is hard work, never get into it if you can’t pray for long without distraction, Please Don’t Marry.
Why I Say This Is……βοΈ – Prayer Is Intimacy With God.
Remember ADAM had time with God before his EVE came. He already spent time God’s presence, till the extent God knew what he wanted.
There are some people God will tell them “Go and marry” not because they want to, but because They know God, and God recognizes them and sees the need for marriage.
Sister, if issues arise in your family and you can’t see before time….if you can’t discern spiritually ahead of time….Check Your Prayer Life.
2. YOU MUST HEAR FROM GOD:
….Before You Think Of Getting Married You Must Hear God…
Please, I beg you. If you need to go and pray before hearing God you’re a baby π
You may not understand, let me help you…..βοΈ
Do you know, Intimacy with God is a daily act.
We are to know God very well…it is very sweet for us to be alone and Blast in Tongues, Worship Him and Pray.
When you do this every day. You may see a woman and God tells you right in your ear “This Is Your Wife”
So you don’t always have to see her and go back and pray before you hear God because God constantly communicates with His Children, but if his Children remain babies you’ll have to see something and be running to pray for days while God would have spoken to you but please, That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pray.
Understand this…..βοΈ
By hearing God. One also must hear God verbally, by dreams, revelations or visions.
If you can’t clearly hear God for 99% of issues in your life. You’re not ready to get married because the time your wife is frustrating you, the Lord may want to tell you that you should love her more. But Mr Man, you can’t hear…π€·ββοΈ
The man is the Priest of the Family. At times you need to leave things to pray for 7 hours.
3. DON’T BE DESPERATE FOR MARRIAGE:
Desperation for marriage is why many people enter wrong marriages. Some people just want to get married. To them marriage is sweet
Those people that Like relationship talks and Marriage talks but don’t like other aspects of the Bible…..You are baby Christians.
Please understand, many of this talks on Relationship mostly affects Emotions. But when a Spiritual activity comes in. People keep quiet, or do not read them
Can I call it Vanity?
If you are rushing for marriage … Please Stop, think and go and build a relationship with God
I told God, may a woman Never make me love you less!
NEVER !!!!
I remember one of the day, I knee and prayed, making a vow to marry whomsoever he will recommend to me as a wife!
…..and He shouldn’t make Me to struggle In searching for a wife but should lead her to me…..with a promise to be a great Spiritual mentor to her and my children.
So this covenant with the Lord had already place me ahead as the watchtower over her daughter and marriage…
So I’m ready to remain unmarried until he says…My son, see that my daughter, Yes…She is my will for you!
Bro…..I love God, I always hear him every day….and if he says, “My Be patient…..It’s not yet time to get married….I won’t bother myself but rather to relax and keep on enjoying my singleness.
So If You are very stubborn to hearing God. YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE.
Let your Relationship be so strong with God. Though He might ask you to do painful things or ask you to marry someone who isn’t your heart desires.
Please see how Job was Hurt by God himself.
– Job 13 15 Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him: but I will maintain mine own ways before him.
If as a believer you can’t say that……βοΈ
PLEASE DON’T GET MARRIED!
Psalms 51:8. Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken* may rejoice.
Please above π you’ll see that God sponsored many of David’s brokenness.
God is the Potter, he can break you in order to mold you, As He did to me years back and at the remembrance of the pains and the scar… It always Hurt….But thank God I have overcame!
So if you really want to get married. You need Spiritual check up.
Love Language
4. SOLVING YOUR PROBLEM:
You Must Not See Marriage As A Means To Solve Your Needs!
Please, Dear Lady……βοΈ
Don’t say you are getting married so you’ll be taken care of financially and Materially. You can work with your husband..
Ladies, even in marriage….Understand he’s not to fulfill all your needs, (that is if he doesn’t have enough because you two are now one).
You can pray for God to provide or help him.
Mr man, don’t get married and just decide to sleep with your wife everyday π¬
Sexual control is needed in marriage for Purity.
A lady’s body can’t handle sex all the time, most especially during her painful monthly circle.
I have taken my time as a man to study, dig and thoroughly make research, ask some funny and silly questions from ladies,….whose range from sexual feelings, emotionally bond, anatomy etc !
And at it stand…..I can vividly gives account of 80% of female anatomy and sexual feelings and mood.
As a man, you may not understand how their Sexual body chemistry and connections.
A good woman won’t deny you Sex in marriage but she won’t enjoy it emotionally and psychologically because sex deal with soul bonding and emotion.
As a man, you can even have sex with your wife even when you are keeping malice with her and still get sexually satisfied but your wife won’t enjoy it or satisfied but rather giving it out probably because she didn’t want you to cheat.
So if you Love her, and most especially Love God. You’ll understand and respect her body language.
In marriage….A lady can get pregnant π€°, And need 9 months, plus extra months to breastfeed.
If you as a man can’t control yourself sexually, Please how did you control yourself before you got married? π€·ββοΈ
That’s when you start having impure thoughts, get into masturbations or pornography Or even adultery
And when a man does that…..People blame their wives? π€¦ββοΈ
Please let’s understand that women Sexual body Chemistry is different from men.
Your wife may not deny you Sex….But you may be hurting her emotionally π’.
I’ve heard men that after their wives give birth they force themselves on her π
Please you don’t know how hard it is to bring a Child out of her body. Some they use needle and thread to stitch their vagina!
Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit……βοΈ
God sometimes may tells his Sons, to abstain from sex for a period of time. If you aren’t prayerful, can’t hear God, not in intimacy, not matured.
Then as woman, you’ll complain that your husband is denying you his body π€¦ββοΈ
5. YOU MUST BE A SOUL WINNER:
In marriage, one becomes faster in soul winning because they have a partner.
Don’t let Marriage limit your service with God….before marriage, ensure you win souls.
6. KNOWING THE NEEDS OF A LADY/MAN:
Sister, Men like food,…learn how to cook if you can’t.
Please also know his favourite dish and don’t joke with it……like me, I love Egbuisi soup with hot Eba π….even with less money, Please try your best. At least if it doesn’t taste nice. Serve him with love praises and unexpected Kiss π
Brother, women love ATTENTION
Pamper her like a baby, shower her with Romantic affirmations tunes and gives her all the cares…..and in return, she will treats you like a King. βΊ
Some women can also be STUBBORN, but when you understand her and pet her and learn to correct her with wisdom, she will definitely be groomed into your desires.
Dear sister, men want RESPECT
At times it’s not very easy, be able to think and analysis’s him, but try to just give him due respect.
My Dear bachelor’s….βοΈ
What I discovered is that…..ladies don’t always talk about their emotions but rather send signals.
That’s why you need to be her friend before even talking about marriage. In this friendship You two get to know yourselves.
You must understand wise ladies don’t rush into Marriage.
β Please before proposing to a lady. Be her friend first!
β Please I beg you. Don’t always approach a lady suddenly.
She wants a Friend to know him well because Marriage between friends last longer.
….Know by her eyes π and feelings or reaction, when she’s hiding something and make sure she talks.
Don’t be the “It is well” brother without finding a solution.
Personally, I hate hearing that spiritual Grammar known as “IT’S WELL” when things are not well.
So, if she mentions something and you say “It Is Well”….It simply means you are not yet ready for marriage.
Please also get to know that, ladies sometimes like to be disturbed to confess something π
So, if she is the type that always end difficult issue with that spiritual grammar “IT’S WELL”…..It simply means, she is trying to tell you that…Nothing is well and you should dig around and see how to encourages or help out!
7. LOVE YOUR PARENTS:
Please before getting married, Love your parents….Also know that your in-laws will be your other parents.
People get lonely while getting old π΅….Please check up on them.
8. KNOW YOUR RESPONSIBILITY IN THE HOUSE:
Please, those brothers that say they won’t cook, or sweeper, or Dry cleaner,….You did not get married to have a maid
Yes, it’s the responsibility of the wife is to do those….But also remember that you married a human being that gets tired π€·ββοΈ
I know women that right from work, they rush to the kitchen to cook….even without Taking bath π or changing their clothes.
Some are very tired. Legs and back will pain them. Yet,….She does everything to please her husband
While he’s in the parlor doing something that’s not important and saying “When would this food be done, I’m hungry”
Please if the man was wise, and could go and help her. They’ll finish faster, right? π€·ββοΈ
A man that can not cook, clean, and wash. Likewise a lady. You two are Unserious and not ready for Marriage
Marriage is for Companionship and friends help themselves.
On Saturday morning a lady can wash the cloths of the whole family but the husband does nothing. Not even to do a single thing!
If you can’t humble yourself under God, till you cry that you Love God. You can’t humble yourself in marriage.
Bro, I’m talking to you….βοΈ
Marriage is blissful and wonderful if the two have sense of understanding and Honour God.
It is not about wedding dress π to ladies……Brother…..it’s not about wedding night π.
It’s about Life together and Service to God..
She may not be a virgin, pray for her and cultivate her. Be like Jesus that accepts anyone.
He accepted you when you sinned which is like not being a virgin intentionally.
So why can’t you accept herπ€·ββοΈ
Husbands love your Wife like Christ Loves the Church. The Church have hurt Christ a lot. But he still seeks us.
Dear Wife material…..βοΈ
Please like a good Church, make reverence to your Husband. Submit to him and love him.
*People study how Christ Loves us, To know how to handle marriage* and that should be your goal before rushing or preparing for marriage.
God Bless Youππ»
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When you both make it a habit to check in on one another, it can really help strengthen the feeling of love between you.
2. LAUGHING TOGETHER
A couple who can share a sense of humor and laugh together will form all kinds of emotional bonds that can help keep the relationship running strong
3. SHARING IS CARING
Whether itβs just your feelings, or emotional and traumatic things from your past, learning to share with your partner can make your relationship that much stronger.
4. GOOD LISTENING SKILLS
Everyone wants to feel heard when they talk, so having good listening skills is important in any relationship. Everyone should be able to listen openly when their partner speaks
5. GIVING IN TO IMPULSE
Being spontaneous helps make sure that the relationship doesnβt fall into a rut. If you want to get in the car and take a vacation one town over for the weekend, do it! If you want to make random plans,
6. HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
Being completely honest will help keep the relationship strong, even if itβs not something that your partner wants to hear.
7. TAKE MENTAL NOTES
Remembering the things that your partner likes and dislikes will mean that youβre paying close attention to your partner.
8. TEASING ONE ANOTHER
Nothing has to be serious all the time! Couples should be able to know when to give in and tease one another β especially if it means cheering one another up.
As a Lady, You should cherish the kind Of Man who brings out the best in you and if the man does all these. He is forever keep.
1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well
2. Cherish the man who loves to read, and not just for exams. He is wise and deep.
3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored. 4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart.
5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood.
6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature.
7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted.
8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood.
9. Cherish the man who doesn’t insult his ex or your ex even if the break up was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons.
10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you.
11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you.
12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you.
13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God.
14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect.
15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honourable legacy.
16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going.
17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends.You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps.
18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you.
19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future.
20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn’t rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate.
21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you are wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper.
22. Cherish the man who has been consistent on his focus. You can depend on him.
23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self motivated and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud.
24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man. https://fb.me/heartbuddies
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